[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":50},["ShallowReactive",2],{"article-\u002Farticles\u002F2024-02-12":3},{"id":4,"title":5,"body":6,"category":34,"cover":36,"date":37,"description":5,"excerpt":31,"extension":38,"featured":39,"featuredCover":40,"images":41,"meta":42,"navigation":43,"path":44,"seo":45,"stem":46,"subCategory":47,"tags":48,"__hash__":49},"articles\u002Farticles\u002F2024-02-12.md","認真的人總是更容易受傷嗎？我也這麼覺得",{"type":7,"value":8,"toc":30},"minimark",[9,12,15,18,21,24,27],[10,11,5],"p",{},[10,13,14],{},"我是一個對任何事都很認真的人，我會認真看待親戚對我的身家調查，當他們關心我的子宮為何不拿來裝胎兒時，我會搬出數據跟法律，告訴他們婚姻跟生育對女性人生沒有好處，而不是隨口說「遇不到對的人啦」、「緣分還沒到啦」（因為我不願意說出違反我個人意志的話）",[10,16,17],{},"職場閒聊時若有人想打聽我的私生活，我會拒絕回答；被介紹男友或是被開玩笑說去當他家媳婦，我會直接在他面前作嘔或是翻白眼。",[10,19,20],{},"這也導致我毫無長輩緣，被認為沒有禮貌、沒大沒小，自私只愛自己，沒有倫理；還會被詛咒「你老了就知道了」、「你會後悔」、「你這種個性一定會被背叛」等等；每一次與長輩（尤其是不了解我個性的長輩）交談，我總是身心俱疲、滿身瘡痍。",[10,22,23],{},"也許活得隨便一點會比較快樂，我也會告訴自己：跟他們認真我就輸了，就像我也可以隱藏刪除酸民的留言，我也可以選擇不要看對我的評論。",[10,25,26],{},"但我從來不隱藏刪除留言，我也總是會去看所有的留言。",[10,28,29],{},"然後隨時隨地咀嚼那些辱罵我的留言、責怪我沒禮貌的話語，無盡地檢討自己實在是太認真了。",{"title":31,"searchDepth":32,"depth":32,"links":33},"",2,[],[35],"未分類","https:\u002F\u002Fpub-f4afdf60544a4e098ca34028acf79d42.r2.dev\u002Fimages\u002F2024-02-12\u002F1.jpg","2024-02-12","md",false,null,[36],{},true,"\u002Farticles\u002F2024-02-12",{"title":5,"description":5},"articles\u002F2024-02-12",[],[],"iht4g4Gi2MQC9vhtUGTfMTDb55E8Bdh3aLmd3TBWf5M",1792331834533]