[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":62},["ShallowReactive",2],{"article-\u002Farticles\u002F2024-10-03":3},{"id":4,"title":5,"body":6,"category":42,"cover":44,"date":45,"description":12,"excerpt":39,"extension":46,"featured":47,"featuredCover":48,"images":49,"meta":54,"navigation":55,"path":56,"seo":57,"stem":58,"subCategory":59,"tags":60,"__hash__":61},"articles\u002Farticles\u002F2024-10-03.md","我不相信Elliot只是嚴守紀律而已，體罰、控制Eddy肯定一個也沒少，孩子都已經自沙了仍認為是自己「沒教好」Eddy，",{"type":7,"value":8,"toc":38},"minimark",[9,13,16,19,22,25,28],[10,11,12],"p",{},"我不相信Elliot只是嚴守紀律而已，體罰、控制Eddy肯定一個也沒少，孩子都已經自沙了仍認為是自己「沒教好」Eddy，代表他與Eddy的關係一直以來都是上對下的，Elliot從來沒把Eddy視為一個成熟的個體並且尊重他。",[10,14,15],{},"我非常痛ㄏㄣˋ父母說的：你永遠都是父母的孩子，所以我就是要多講你兩句，多管你的閒事，對你多說幾句難聽的話；美其名我永遠都是父母的孩子，父母放不下我，父母怕我受傷；但其實父母放不下的是對孩子的控制權，他們這輩子沒能控制什麼，如果連自己的孩子都控制不了，他們的人生還有什麼目標？",[10,17,18],{},"這整個實驗的變項就是「不同的教養方式」，Elliot不得不承認是自己忘記教了什麼東西給Eddy，不然這種嚴厲守規矩的老男人會承認自己的錯誤嗎？怎麼可能！",[10,20,21],{},"沒有這個實驗，這些家長只會覺得是「現在年輕人抗壓性太差」、「這樣就要憂鬱症會不會太誇張」、「我是為你好啊」、「你不要這麼草莓好不好」，就算孩子都自沙了，他們也會全推給別人，「一定是那些壞朋友帶壞他」、「一定是報導太多自殺新聞」、「一定是民進黨害的」、「可惡的教改，應該要恢復聯考制度」，反正千錯萬錯都是別人的錯。",[10,23,24],{},"我也是在這種自以為開明實則嚴厲控制動不動就打罵教育的家庭中長大的，我才不想管父母是不是真的愛我，至少我絲毫感受不到，我沒被逼瘋是不是只是因為我沒有精神疾病的基因？",[10,26,27],{},"愛不代表溺愛，重點也從來不是你有沒有愛你的孩子，而是你的孩子有沒有感受到愛。",[10,29,30,34,35],{},[31,32,33],"strong",{},"三個一模一樣的陌生人"," ",[31,36,37],{},"Netflix",{"title":39,"searchDepth":40,"depth":40,"links":41},"",2,[],[43],"未分類","https:\u002F\u002Fpub-f4afdf60544a4e098ca34028acf79d42.r2.dev\u002Fimages\u002F2024-10-03\u002F1.jpg","2024-10-03","md",false,null,[44,50,51,52,53],"https:\u002F\u002Fpub-f4afdf60544a4e098ca34028acf79d42.r2.dev\u002Fimages\u002F2024-10-03\u002F2.jpg","https:\u002F\u002Fpub-f4afdf60544a4e098ca34028acf79d42.r2.dev\u002Fimages\u002F2024-10-03\u002F3.jpg","https:\u002F\u002Fpub-f4afdf60544a4e098ca34028acf79d42.r2.dev\u002Fimages\u002F2024-10-03\u002F4.jpg","https:\u002F\u002Fpub-f4afdf60544a4e098ca34028acf79d42.r2.dev\u002Fimages\u002F2024-10-03\u002F5.jpg",{},true,"\u002Farticles\u002F2024-10-03",{"title":5,"description":12},"articles\u002F2024-10-03",[],[33,37],"tqmdiLSGTEQ9irb3JRRN0rgMuQmPyDxDCNq3fdSokC4",1792331835060]